Double bind

They blame the low-income women for ruining the country because they are staying home with their children and not going out to work. They blame the middle-income women for ruining the country because they go out to work and do not stay home to take care of their children.-Ann Richards

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I have noticed the same thing.

Some people living in la-la-land say poor women's problems would be solved if they got married. Who are they supposed to marry? Most of the men available to them are also poor, and more likely to make he life worse than better.